All American and Gay (1976-78)

1976—I hated my first job. I was spending long hours in a rigorous bank training program in Manhattan and, besides infrequent and random pick-ups in gay bars, I had little social life except with a few college fraternity brothers and their girlfriends and my fellow trainees.  Frustrated with my situation, I decided one day to place Read more about All American and Gay (1976-78)[…]

My first visits to Fire Island (1979-80)

1979/1980—My first visit to Fire Island was over Halloween weekend in 1979, long after the resort’s summer season had ended. The legendary Sandpiper, a ramshackle wooden disco that had been the center of Fire Island Pines gay night life for more than a decade, scheduled its closing party for that weekend. I was fortunate enough to Read more about My first visits to Fire Island (1979-80)[…]

Photo Gallery – Meeting Gary (Mykonos 1985)

In early September 1985, I spent a week on vacation in Mykonos. Early in my stay, I spied a handsome, muscular, blond young man on clothing-optional Super Paradise Beach and started chatting with him. His name was Gary Matthews and he was a Welsh hair stylist visiting from London. Fortunately, the attraction was mutual and, Read more about Photo Gallery – Meeting Gary (Mykonos 1985)[…]

Photo Gallery: Sailing in Angra dos Reis, Brazil (Year End 1992)

Gay men traveling together in Brazil (1992-93) In 1992, my  travel agent friend, Ron Oyer, organized a gay group tour to Rio de Janeiro, Brazil for Xmas and New Year’s.  In the 1990’s, Ron led groups of a dozen men or so at a time to Rio for New Years and Carnival, to Mykonos in Read more about Photo Gallery: Sailing in Angra dos Reis, Brazil (Year End 1992)[…]